I received an email from my boss today commenting on the size of one of the executives screenshots. I was taken aback. Floored. Here is a man, a professional, talking to one of his subordinates about the size of his superior’s screenshots like it’s not a thing. Even if you take the gender dynamics out … Continue reading Size Doesn’t Matter: Discussing Sensitive Issues in the Workplace
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Garçon!: Making the Most of a Meal Out
I eat out way too frequently, and as such, am an expert in how to treat waitstaff. And I know, this is going to vary for the international readers, especially when it comes to the whole tipping thing, but bear with me. Treating waiters well is the key to a stellar dining experience. They control the … Continue reading Garçon!: Making the Most of a Meal Out
Removing Nice from Your Vocabulary
I will never claim to be the best at speaking (or writing) eloquently but inhale a linguistic pet peeve I Would very much like to discuss with you. There is an overused four letter word that is driving me fucking bananas. The word is nice. If I were to ask you what nice meant you'd … Continue reading Removing Nice from Your Vocabulary
Full Disclosure: A Guide
I've written about how to reveal your kinks to people you want to be kinky with (and learned that some people just keep a google doc to share as necessary) but I never helped you with those other discussions that are maybe less extreme and probably more uncomfortable. As weird as it is telling someone … Continue reading Full Disclosure: A Guide
Coping with Screen Separation Anxiety
This week has been rough. I have had three different infections, been burned and electrocuted, bruised by furniture, and I pulled a muscle in my back while carrying a recliner around for some old people, and one of my bosses took the time to explain how payroll works (either he employs dumb-dumb heads or he's … Continue reading Coping with Screen Separation Anxiety
Learning to Accept Compliments
One of the things that I have noticed is that people, women especially, are really bad at accepting compliments. I think it stems from the collective idea that you can't be happy with yourself. You're spectacular, own that shit. And I understand that it may feel awkward at first but use some of the responses … Continue reading Learning to Accept Compliments
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